Urgently Needed!

Position: Wife

Available Position: 1 Permanent

Requirement:

Female, health physically and psychologically.
Has a sexual orientation to men.
Good looking, at least she could be introduced to friends and family with proud.
Has a similar interest, consistent, and the frequency at least fifth per day, more than fifth will be more considered.
Fluent in Javanesse, able to recite Al-Qur’an.
Age min. 22 years old, max. 32 years old.
Fresh graduate are welcome to apply.
Fast learner, able to be developed easily
High responsibility and commitment.
Love children.
Like Pets.


If you want to develop yourself with me, please send your application letter, CV, and the latest photograph (4R, colour, and no Photoshop) to: bimarasuna@gmail.com with subject 'Application for Life Partner'.

only shortlisted candidate will be contacted.

PS: Seriously

Tanya Kenapa?

Tanya Kenapa

Tanya : “Tadi malem ada pertandingan Arsenal lo nonton kagak?”
Jawab : “Ya gw pasti nonton lah.”

Tanya : “Balapan kemarin yang menang siapa? Gw kagak nonton, gw mesti nungguin servis sepeda di auto bridal”
Jawab : “Rugi lo kagak nonton bro, balapanya seru banget, yang menang si Lorenzo, jagoan gw ”

Tanya : “Besok minggu ada reunian anak-anak SMA di Plaza Semanggi, dateng ya?”
Jawab : “Iya gw pasti dateng, gw dah kangen, lama kagak ketemu.”

Tanya : ”Minggu depan camping di Ranca Upas yuk?”
Jawab : “Wah maaf ni, kagak bisa cuy..minggu depan gw ada tugas keluar kota.”

Tanya : “Ntar malem ada tandingan futsal di Soccer Indoor lo main ya!”
Jawab : “Oke bos.”

Tanya : “Kapan terakhir lo dateng ke pengajian?”
Jawab : “Wah gw udah lupa kapan ya…”

Tanya : “Pengajian terakhir yg lo hadiri tentang apa?”
Jawab : “Hmmm, tentang apa ya…..”

Tanya : “Jumatan kemarin khotib-nya kasih pesan apa?”
Jawab : “Apa ya, gw ketiduran pas khotibnya ceramah…..”

Tanya : “Pas Shalat Maghrib tadi imamnya baca surat apa?”
Jawab : “Wah, gw lupa, baca apa ya….”

Kapan lo sempatkan waktu buat cari ilmu yang Fiddunya Wal Akhirat? Ingat setiap hari kita dihitung performance-nya, Kita juga kagak tahu kapan evaluasi-nya, belajarlah selagi lo sempat, ikuti proses coaching dari tiap ayat-Nya yang dibacakan imam.


Cirebon, 4 Desember 2011

Marriage Question

Marriage Question...
Thats is scary question for people with age between 24 - 26 that still have no boyfriend or girlfriend (Including Me).
So, when is that question will appear?
Usually when big family gathering, when we meet our uncle, or family etc.
This year (August,2011) I can dodge from that question, because now i'm not in Yogyakarta, I can't participate in family gathering.

But how about next year?
Now I'am almost 24 years, and still haven't girlfriend. Even i think I'm not so ugly but I don't know why, this is my real condition.
Exactly i have to do something...so lets do something.
With intention pure for Allah, bismillah....

Feel : I'm Not From Around Here

Dear My Friend....
I hope this letter never finds you in anytime. Coz I just need to express my thoughts without having to ruin your day.

Yah....perusahaan baru, lingkungan baru, kewajiban baru (Semua tantangan baru)
Life is a choice, life is an an adventure, life is bigger than what you think.

Barang siapa yang pernah pindah perusahaan mungkin pernah mengalami ini, apalagi kalau proses kepindahaanya dengan cara yang tidak mengikuti prosedur. Yup, saat ini saya bekerja di BUMN terbesar di Indonesia, dengan status trainee. The problem is, saat bergabung ke tempat baru ini saya tidak bersama dengan teman-teman satu angkatan yang lain. Atas nama komitmen terhadap tanggung jawab saya menyelesaikan project yang telah diberikan perusahaan saya sebelumnya terlebih dahulu baru setelah itu saya masuk ke perusahaan baru. Nah karena harus menyelesaikan project ini, aku masuk telat 2 minggu di banding teman yang lain. Rasanya seperti anak SD yang baru pindah sekolah, teman-teman yang ada disini sudah saling mengenal satu sama lain, sudah tinggal bersama selama 2 minggu, tiba-tiba ada lagi tambahan satu orang asing (aku) disitu.
Bagaimanakah rasanya???
Ya, seperti yang bisa diperkirakan "Feel Not From Around Here"
But that is a challenge, i believe this only will happen in a few weeks, or a few month, and after all i will feel like the champions. Because if I left my previous company and my manager without finishing my responsibilities, that will create guilty feeling in my whole life.
So this feeling is better than guilty feeling in entire of my life...
Easy Guys Stay Calm

Doa Sayidina Ali menyambut Bulan Ramadhan

Tarawih pertama, malam 1 Ramadhan di Masjid Pulo Gebang, Jakarta Timur.
(Minggu, 31 Juli 2011)

Ceramah tarawih hari ini, tentang doa Sayidina Ali setiap datang Bulan Ramadhan, beliau berdoa meminta tiga hal, yaitu:

Yang pertama adalah dikaruniakan kesehatan,sehingga bisa menjalankan ibadah puasa dan sunah-sunahnya. Kesehatan disini adalah kesehatan jasmani dan rohani. Apabila kita sakit fisik, pastilah kita akan kesulitan untuk menjalankan amalan sunah di bulan puasa, semisal shalat tarawih. Begitupun apabila kita tidak sehat secara pikiran, meskipun jarak masjid hanya selemparan batu(sak plintengan)/sambil jalan mundur juga sampai dari rumah namun apabila kita tidak dikarunia keinginan, pasti kita tidak akan berangkat ke masjid.

Yang kedua adalah meminta dijauhkan dari hal-hal yang bersifat duniawi selama berpuasa. Kebanyakan dari kita selama berpuasa hanya sekedar menahan makan dan minum saja, tetapi tidak menjaga fikir kita dari hal-hal yang hedon. Padahal esensi dari puasa bukan sekedar menahan makan dan minum saja.

Dan yang ketiga adalah meminta dijauhkan dari kantuk ketika berpuasa. Ketika berpuasa memang tidurnya adalah ibadah, diamnya dzikir, apalagi apabila kita bekerja ketika berpuasa, pastilah sangat besar pahalanya.

Cats In The Cradle

May, 16th 2011
Jakarta

Cats In The Cradle
Sung by : cat stevens, GnR, Ugly Kids Joe

My child arrived just the other day
Came to the world in the usual way
But there were planes to catch and bills to pay
He learned to walk while I was away
He was talkin' 'fore I knew it
And as he grew he said,
"I'm gonna be like you, Dad,
You know I'm gonna be like you."

Chorus:
And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man on the moon.
"When you comin' home?"
"Son, I don't know when. We'll get together then.
You know we'll have a good time then."

Well, my son turned ten just the other day He said,
"Thanks for the ball, Dad. Come on, let's play.
Could you teach me to throw?"
I said, "Not today. I got a lot to do."
He said, "That's okay."
And he walked away and he smiled and he said,
"You know, I'm gonna be like him, yeah.
You know I'm gonna be like him."

(Chorus)

Well, he came from college just the other day,
So much like a man I just had to say,
"I'm proud of you. Could you sit for a while?"
He shook his head and he said with a smile,
"What feeling like, Dad, is to borrow the car keys.
See you later. Can I have them please?"

(Chorus)

I've long since retired, my son's moved away.
I called him up just the other day.
"I'd like to see you, if you don't mind."
He said, "I'd love to, Dad, if I could find the time.
You see my new job's a hassle and the kids have the flu,
But it's sure nice talkin' to you, Dad.
It's been sure nice talkin' to you."
And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me,
He'd grown up just like me.
My boy was just like me.

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon,
Little boy blue and the man on the moon.
"When you comin' home son?"
"I don't know when. We'll get together then.
You know we'll have a good time then."


Did you ever listen this song before? what you feel when you read the lirycs?
This song tell about relation between father and son, the song that make me remember about my parent in my home child, did i already give enough time for my parents? what you are looking for? your personal achievement? Than after you old what you want? I want my son beside me, with good attitude even without gold or glory.
That song teach us indirectly, how we should treat our child in the future..


So i think my parents also want me beside them (now????)

I will reference you some song that showing relation between father and son :
1. Cats in the cradle (GnR)
2. Perfect (simple Plan)
3. Ode to my family (Cranberries)
4. Father eyes (Eric Clapton)
5. Father and Son (Cat Stevens)
6. When you're gone (Cranberries)

thats all my favourite song...but there are still other songs, for example : Mike & The Mechanics (the living years), color him father, leader of the band, Father to Son (Phill Collins)

Persistent

All we are heve master plan of our life. May be since we child we also already plan of our future, than when we teenage we have another plan for our future, and may be after we adult he have another again plan for our future. Sometimes we changed our plan because we make adjusment in our current condition. We make plan based on actual condition. For example when i'am child i want became a football player, than in my teenage i want to be engineer, and in senior high school i entry in social major, than i want became an accountant. I'am entry university in psychology faculty, faculty that i never think before..so i choose become an enterpreneur after graduates.
But became enterpreneur is very hard, so i choose became employee...first i think that i want working in oil and gas company. But my major not so needed in this industry. So i think that the most important is i working in big company. And now i already working, and i want to working in bigger company, but sometimes that is hard for me, sometimes i feel inferior, i feel down, i disapoointed to my self from what i have done.


So what is make us always change our goal and disappointed to ourself?
The answer is very very simple....
Lack of self persistent, lack of our commitment...


If we do our best, what ever the result i'am sure that we will satisfied..
Than how to improving our persistent?
Easy, first enhance your intrinsic enjoyment of the pursuit, as the effect that will improving your self-discipline

And after all, so lets enjoy our life than more discipline

Between Loyalty, Personal Achievement, Family Expectation, and Ideal Life

In our career, especially when we start establising our career there are many choose that we are facing with. This step bring us in dilemma situation. That is what now i facing with.
At this time i have job in one of PMA (Perusahaan Modal Asing) in Indonesia, more special i working in Japannese company, with good position, enough salary and clear career step. I'm is newbie in this company, stil six month here. I'm join in this company after enroll and pass the selection process of this holding company (one of the biggest company in indonesia with total employee) so of course i thanks to God for all that i have.
But as usually, human have ambition and disatisfaction, sometimes this good but sometimes this also forbiden. Last week i enroll oil and gas company that owned by goverment, and this afternoon i got call for following the selection process. Honestly, join in this company is my goal when i was at university. So this condition take me to the dilemma, because now i still working and the selection will held in working days. Another dilemma is because i still new in this company, still there are nothing big that i give to the company, its not so ethic if i leave the company. Even also there are no guarantee that i will pass in this selection. But if i make comparation this situation is seem a boy with girlfriend made approaching to other girlfriend. So is what i do is betraying??.
My father of course want me to join in this goverment company, and i'm sure that will make him proud. This is also my goal, my personal achievement (one more time there are no guarantee i will pass the selection. But i also have loyalty side, my thanks to my company now, how they have give good treat to me, how they very welcomed to me.
Dilemma

Why I Write

Why I Write


When I young, and maybe now I also still can called young, I have no interesting in reading, so of course I never write something. But lately I started love reading, especially novel. Perhaps this is late, but in Indonesian quotes there a sentence “ Better late than never”.
So what is the relations between reading and writing?
This is not because I want to became a writer, but this is because I want to share my experience, my story to other. Maybe my story can give inspiration to other…with my bitter story can give motivation to other, haha. I also heard quotes which motivate me to writing, that is :
“Story only worthy when it shared”
“Unspoken thoughts only get you nowhere. If you can’t speak out than write it out”
So, if you want to make your story worthy and share your experience with other persons, maybe you can write your story.

Is That Enough?

First i want to say sorry if awhile you read my blog make you confusing. I know that my english is bad (acakadut), but i want to learn writing in english by this blog, is that wrong? If any complaint just come to me.
In this time, i have one year complete have account in blogspot. Maybe not to many post that i made, but i will try to increasing my creation. If one year ago my status still a student in university, now i have different status, more responsibility, less time for a moment like this (a lazy time for doing nothing).
Introspection today is about what i get now
Yes..... Human is a creature that never felt satisfied with what they get..because we only human. In this theme we must seeing not only from one side, because in other side unsitisfied is positive, eager to learn, to achieve, to progress is came from unsatisfied.
If I think again about what I get now, I should thanks to the god for what I have get. Me which from elementary school till now is a bastard, can get good enough job, in good enough salary, in big enough company. Maybe there still many of my friend which get better company and better salary than me, but exactly they deserved for that, because they had been make more effort than me.

What should i do with what i get now (income that's i mean). Syafi'i Antonio, master of islamic finance, suggest about allocation of our income. This is his suggestions :
1. Saving
2. Pay Loan (If any)
3. Zakat
4. Invest
5. Shoping

Okay, because this is sunday and i'm still not clean yet my vehicle, enough for today..
April-10-2011
Sunday afternoon, in East Jakarta